Aquarian Men : Platonic Contradictions

Real talk: Being an Aquarius is more confusing than learning about one. As a female, men are even more complex. When you combine the two, you get a rocket science equation as a person.

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I am just going to assume you have some idea of Aquarius and how they interact with the other signs and vice versa. But just in case you have no clue, don’t worry. Here is a quick overview of Aquarius.

Aquarius Overview

Date: January 20 - February 18

Planet: Saturn

Element: Air

Symbol: Water bearer

Type: fixed

Insight on the Aquarius Man

Aquarius men are not afraid to be alone, judged, or unpredictable. In fact, unpredictable is probably the only accurate way to describe an Aquarius. He was born very intuitive and maybe from that moment he always felt like an oddball that no one understands. Sounds sad but thankfully Aquarius men pride themselves on how different they are. This shows throughout their day to day lives. Aquarius are all about the mind, highly intelligent. He is reserved, most likely not the type to tell anyone his emotional stance on any topic. Many blogs and people are quick to call Aquarius heartless, but that isn’t the case at all. His beliefs and emotions are heavily guarded for that is the most important thing to him. Being a fixed sign , this can and often does lead to stubbornness. Aquarius is a humanitarian, when he sees someone who needs help he will do everything he can to help out. He may also feel a little bad if he didn’t succeed in assisting. Freedom is another thing Aquarians need to survive. The moment he feels like he’s in a situation where he’s bored, feeling controlled or in a clingy relationship. He will leave and not second guess about it. The biggest insight I can give on the Aquarius man is to give him his space to be.

Aquarian Intuition

I mentioned above that Aquarian men are highly intuitive. Most people don’t even realize how true this is. To put it in perspective, this is someone who resides in his mind 24/7. In my biased opinion (Aquarius female) the only reason an Aquarian speaks is because someone talked to them first. Not by any means saying Aquarian men are shy, reserved yes. But once you do get one talking for real, you’ll know what I mean. The conversation will be so sporadic and all over the place that I can guarantee you will walk away with a new concept or something you never thought about before. His cosmic job is teaching. The stars gave him the ability to observe their surroundings/peers through a lens other signs don’t possess ( hence why Aquarius is voted the weirdest sign of the zodiac). When he speaks he can’t help but to share all of his discoveries and eureka moments. Through conversation is actually how he determines who is worthy enough to be allowed in his life and who is not. Basically, if you can hang in a conversation with him and he’s not the only one adding value to it, he may grow fond of you over time. But don’t go trying to talk to him every hour of the day unless you’re trying to get him to ghost you. His intuition isn’t driven by emotion, it’s driven by intellect. To him if emotions are involved then judgement can become clouded. And the best decision is the most logical one.

Aquarian Personality

It’s established that Aquarians are forward thinkers. Just because they do all that thinking and contemplating doesn’t make them as serious as they seem. In fact, they possess a strange sense of humor. They are the type of people who can see the humor in everything. Aquarius are charismatic, social, and thoughtful. He is spontaneous so there is rarely ever a boring day with him. His personality won’t shine through the first time you meet him, that will take sometime to unfold. When it comes to platonic relationships, Aquarians are pros. They love experiencing people, good times and good vibes, they just don’t want to deal with the stuff that comes with it. So be cautious if trying to pursue a romantic relationship with a male Aquarius, they can make you feel the relationship is going one way but, their actions will say another thing. Know that most Aquarians don’t do this on purpose but because they don’t know how to handle the emotions, thoughts, and feelings they have; let alone those of other people. It gets too overwhelming to think about and it’s too cumbersome explaining every action you make so no one’s feelings get hurt. Keep it light hearted when speaking with him and if you are going to get weird go all the way. It’s all or nothing, if you’re enjoying a conversation about aliens and you refuse to listen to every conspiracy he has, then why are you talking.

Conclusion

In conclusion, if you’re looking for an awkward nonjudgmental friend you can talk about anything with then befriend an Aquarian male. Aquarians have a magnetic aura around them. People don’t know why they are drawn to him and why they can’t get him out of their heads. The way he thinks is a mystery, those closest to him will have to be okay with never knowing what’s going on in his mind. They’ll have to be okay with someone who can’t pass judgment and someone who never takes sides (except his own). Aquarians are co-ruled by Saturn, the only planet turned on its axle. Just like our ruling planet, Aquarians aren’t afraid of being the odd one out. They embrace it.